A product of modern technology, webcam exhibitionism in front of an adult, consenting and enthusiastic audience is a fun, exciting and, all in all, rather widespread sexual practice.
This article is absolutely not about starting a career as a host of a pink webcam. I have no experience in that area, and the job adverts from companies recruiting for this role tend to bug me a tad for treating women like dummies. This article is also not going to advise you on buying a webcam.
I’ll be talking to you here about online exhibition for purely fun purposes. Yes, you know, the exhibition, the favourite pastime of the man in the raincoat, replaced nowadays by the man from Chatroulette. But with an adult, consenting and enthusiastic audience, this extremely widespread voluntary activity can become even more fun.
Who can exhibit on webcam?
Exhibitionism is, alas, a very discriminatory activity.
Gentlemen, if you are single and straight, your little weenie will have very little success. Unless you get more creative to attract the ladies, you are likely, despite the webcam, to end up face to face with your equipment. In short: to be very disappointed… Unless you fantasise about the unpleasant surprise caused by the sight of an erect penis for someone who was not expecting it, or in other words, if you pull off the surprise boner, which is not very polite.
The ladies, the luckier of them, will generally benefit from a fairly sizable audience. But it’s the couples who will generally break records for the number of spectators, which is quite normal. In fact, the more actors there are, the more action there is, the more you feel like watching.
I’ll just remind you in passing that you of course have to be of age to indulge in such naughty doings. If that’s not the case, let me first tell you that you’ve seriously gone a bit far by getting away with bypassing the big popup telling you to run off like hell. There, that’s said. Now, leave this blog at once. Until you’re of age, you can satisfy your urges on this site.
Why exhibit?
There aren’t fifty possible answers: because you want to. You might want to because it’s fun or because it excites you, most often both. But the most important thing (as with most sexual practices, actually) is to do it only because you want to, and definitely not to “do well” or to please the other person.
I’m not going to put forward a three-hour theory about the therapeutic benefits of webcam exhibitionism. It’s a matter of sex and fantasies. Fantasies, everyone has their own, and the reasons for wanting to show your crotch (or not) to an awestruck audience differ greatly depending on the little twats. That said, noticing that you are being watched with interest during your lovemaking by a considerable number of people, which you weren’t necessarily expecting, needless to say, it’s good for your ego, and it’s mega-funny.
Webcam exhibitionism, how does it work?
I don’t claim to know everything about it. I’ll just stick to talking about what I know.
Choosing a site to exhibit on
A good way to be seen by a large number of people is to use an adult dating site. This automates the process, so there’s no need to bother picking people up before getting laid. We used Adult FriendFinder. There’s no need to pay for a subscription for this. Filmed sex brings in a good quota of visitors and adds free appeal to the site, so a free account on the site is enough to stream your webcam.
A tip to avoid ruining the trip: whichever site you plan to use, create your account and work out how to access the webcam in advance. When it comes to taking action, it would be a shame to faff for three hours just to get this bloody webcam going. It kills the mood a little.
Taking action
So, right. You start getting naughty, you start the webcam. And then? Then, the number of people watching gradually increases, there’s nothing specific to do. Couples can easily surpass a thousand viewers. I was quite impressed by that number, which I wasn’t expecting at all! As the number of viewers shoots up, you feel a bit like a rock star. You really get even more creative in finding techniques to boost the viewer count. And while you’re at it, you experiment without even realising it at the time!
The bonus is that, since most sites of that kind are international, and many webcam viewers practise this art with the sound off, there’s no real need to really mind what you say. One or two gaffes (lack of glamour, disrespectful remarks towards the audience, …) will go almost unnoticed. Alternatively, you can simply switch off the mic.
Webcam exhibitionism: a multi-fantasy tool
Webcam exhibitionism can also find its place in a submission / humiliation kink. In my view, a webcam is best seen as a multi-fantasy tool, available at the whim of your imagination, rather than as a fantasy in its own right.
In short… Make use of your more or less twisted minds, and your webcams!
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