Bertrand has been organising gang bangs in Paris since 2001. That is what can be read on his website, which is impeccably presented and tastefully blends accounts of his decadent evenings with soft erotic photos.
The mention of the term “gang bang” brings to my mind, first of all, images from porn films shot in a hurry in a back-alley sex shop. Then I think of what we have had the chance to observe in a swinger club at gang bang-themed evenings: a swarm of hairy bums, clustered together in the hope of getting close to a lady (the situation may be exciting, but aesthetically, we’ll pass).
This vision of refined, erotic and respectful gang bangs, a world away from popular imagery, intrigued me. And my curiosity grew when, browsing his website, I learned that it was not a lucrative activity, but the result of good rapport within a group of like-minded friends, devoted to high-quality, free-of-charge swinging. Hoping that an interview would allow me to learn more about “Gang Bang in Paris” and its organiser, I contacted Bertrand. He very kindly agreed to answer my questions.
I am not only a gang bang organiser, but a swinger party organiser. In fact, since 2001, when the group was created, I have organised over thirty multi-couple parties, including one, once a year, on the French Riviera.
As a swinger, I realised that as a single man, it was difficult for me to have fun with couples or women. I was just a man among others, hence the idea of creating this group in 2001. At the time, there were three of us.
Our group and its concept are unique. The idea is to offer women or couples men who have a perfect grasp of the codes of swinging, know each other well, and are like-minded friends, which guarantees successful parties. We are now around twenty.
This organisation takes up far less time than it did at a certain time, which is largely due to a perfectly fulfilling partnership and a highly demanding professional life.
Paying to swing should only be valid and acceptable in swinger clubs, private parties should essentially be free.
I never get in touch; I don’t need to, our group is well known and recognised, often cited as a reference for organisation, and then being desired has an exciting side.
There are, of course, more couples than single women contacting us, but our website is reassuring; it is by far the most aesthetically appealing of the organisation websites, which often have mediocre and vulgar content.
We took the risk of eroticising gang bangs, and many have copied us both in terms of website and content, or organisationally.
I admit to not having counted.
The distinctive feature of our gang bang parties is that we refuse more than five men per evening in order to preserve the human dimension of the event and its intimacy.
The group is full, but sometimes I call on a new member. There is no need to point out to you that we only call on men who are known or recognised in this milieu and who have been frequenting it for a long time; on the other hand, we refuse those who go to paid parties.
It sometimes happens that I show photos of the men to the ladies, only photos of them with their faces uncovered, but know that the photo of the lady or couple sent to me is never shown to the men; they trust me completely.
This sets us apart from many, who place the woman like a “piece of meat” on display, whereas at Gang Bang in Paris, she is on a pedestal. My website is in fact made for women and not for men.
We organised a gang bang in the car park of a gendarmerie. The couple wanted the organisation of a simulated rape. We were masked, the woman was unaware of anything; nothing could have led her to suppose that she might know we were heading to such a place. And we ended the evening in a sobering-up cell.
We have organised in the grandest Parisian palaces, the rooms paid for by the couples.
We often refuse to organise the same evenings to avoid getting bored… The most original idea: a gang bang in a hot-air balloon that we were unable to organise.
We were the first to organise an exclusively female gang bang: nine women for one woman, an evening called “wicked ladies”. A chic swinger dinner too, in a grand house in Lamorlaye, where the submissives served the couples and gentlemen. But I refuse to repeat the same thing too often.
By the way, a scoop for your site :), we are going to organise the first swinger treasure hunts in the heart of Paris, four parties a year.
I only go to the free swinger parties organised by friends. Swinging in clubs does not interest me… Sometimes, I go to Cap d’Agde, but I am not very keen on it…
Yes, of course, but often the couples or women would like me to take part.
All the invited men bring a branded champagne. All the venues I have access to are lent to me, so there are no costs. Every year in the south, I organise in a villa belonging to a multi-millionaire who lends it to me in return for nothing.
A huge thank you to Bertrand, from Gang Bang in Paris, for agreeing to answer our questions.
